Maternal loss is a complex experience. It stands as unique and “different” to any other bereavement. It is experienced as a primary harm. This project captures a photographic insight into the lives of women who have been bereaved during the conflict in the North of Ireland by the loss of a child in violent conflict-related circumstances.
91% of those killed during this conflict were men. It was a deeply gendered conflict.
Women’s experience of the conflict was different to men’s.
Women’s experience of bereavement was profoundly different.
This photographic project, in capturing mothers and noticing their unique experience, is the beginning of a process of noticing and acknowledging that is was “different for mothers”. Victims and survivors have at times been cast as disruptors, uncomfortable or even “toxic” players during our peace process. These women are contributors to our peace.They tell our post-conflict society why we must never return to the days of conflict. Their experience tells us why human rights, the rights of women, the rights of children, the right to live free from conflict and in dignity are all so vitally important. They tell us dealing with the past is an act of love and care.
